So, what is the difference between the atomization process when the node
  <abc/> is present but empty, and when it's not there?

in one case you get an empty string "" 
(for which $abc = '' is true)
and in the other you get an empty sequence () 
(for which the test $abc='' is false, as no item in the sequence is
equal to "")

David

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